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Spiritual Journey to Unconditional Love

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On November 7, 2017 it will be exactly 11 months since my dark journey began.  At that time my soul was broken, incredible sadness and loss at the destruction of my marriage.  What began with blame and finger pointing, turned to shame and guilt, then deep sadness at the things I could not change about myself.  Transmuted to attempts to tear down walls I had built for protection.  All of this in an effort to understand the greatest gift of all, unconditional love.  Every step of this process involved the discovery of a new talent to be exercised for my betterment.  I feel the need to share my journey with others, so that when YOU meet loss, you too will have a place to start.  In laymen’s terms – what does it look like to remove your ego, how do you recognize the mirror, what really is that still small voice you hear, and how do you listen to it. 

 

Keep forever in your mind, that I know absolutely nothing, other than what I have gone through.  I am not an expert, I fall down, fail in my attempts, am inconsistent, and make mistakes like the rest of us.  I hope that this can be a place for others to come and share their thoughts on their healing journey.  I am open to discussion on other options and ways to heal (I love learning).  I will not tolerate bashing, I will not be vilified for my thoughts and beliefs, nor do I allow others to experience the same within this framework.  Nor will I hold your hands, your journey is after all your journey in life.  What I have to offer may not be for you, however you will have to do the work required to heal yourself if you wish to heal. 

 

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Everything is Real, Nothing is Real

  • Writer: Wendy S. Hockenberry
    Wendy S. Hockenberry
  • Nov 15, 2017
  • 1 min read

Your mind is a terrible thing to waste! Hold on here… your mind is ego based, it can control you! Logic and reason are wonderful tools! Tut-tut my friend, logic and reason can also control you. Emotions help guide you to where you need to be! Oh, my word… emotions can also take over. I can see, touch, smell, taste, hear everything! Wait… stop… all of those are perception tools your brain uses to interpret reality and may or may not be real.


WHAT IS GOING ON HERE? Point in fact, everything you experience is both real, and not real. We live in a three-dimensional world when it has been proven there are many more dimensions than can be seen. If you don’t believe this ask any tool maker. Nothing is done on a compass rose anymore, there isn’t just an up, down, left, and right. There are points off center, points above center, points behind left and right. So how can you tell if you are in (or need to be in) another dimension?





Ask this:

  • Does this situation show you that there isn’t just a light, dark, or grey area?

  • Can you see an alternative to where you are headed that is neither light, dark, or grey?


Skipping over all the possibilities from point A to B, and jumping over to a new path without following a path is the definition of “OTHER.” For now, this is all you will need to ask yourself.


Last Updated June 11, 2018

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