Wendy S. Hockenberry
Mastered Choice
A regret is a bitter pill to swallow. So many of us say YES, when we really want to say NO. We do something for someone and immediately...
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Hi Gwen!
Spiritual Journey to Unconditional Love
On November 7, 2017 it will be exactly 11 months since my dark journey began. At that time my soul was broken, incredible sadness and loss at the destruction of my marriage. What began with blame and finger pointing, turned to shame and guilt, then deep sadness at the things I could not change about myself. Transmuted to attempts to tear down walls I had built for protection. All of this in an effort to understand the greatest gift of all, unconditional love. Every step of this process involved the discovery of a new talent to be exercised for my betterment. I feel the need to share my journey with others, so that when YOU meet loss, you too will have a place to start. In laymen’s terms – what does it look like to remove your ego, how do you recognize the mirror, what really is that still small voice you hear, and how do you listen to it.
Keep forever in your mind, that I know absolutely nothing, other than what I have gone through. I am not an expert, I fall down, fail in my attempts, am inconsistent, and make mistakes like the rest of us. I hope that this can be a place for others to come and share their thoughts on their healing journey. I am open to discussion on other options and ways to heal (I love learning). I will not tolerate bashing, I will not be vilified for my thoughts and beliefs, nor do I allow others to experience the same within this framework. Nor will I hold your hands, your journey is after all your journey in life. What I have to offer may not be for you, however you will have to do the work required to heal yourself if you wish to heal.
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Wendy S. Hockenberry
Worshiping the Money God
I have often heard "Money is the root of all evil," wondering how true this statement is. I know that money issues are one of the...
Wendy S. Hockenberry
The Bear Trap
You’re walking along and suddenly your paw is captured, or you have just slammed up against the bars of a cage. You begin pacing, or...
Wendy S. Hockenberry
Your SMALL Voice
My mom used to say, ‘listen to your little voice.’ I always thought Jimminy Cricket should be around, somewhere right? Because I don’t...
Wendy S. Hockenberry
Riding the Cycle (Karma Kicks)
In spirituality they talk about Cycles, you repeat things over and over until you learn the lesson from it. It reminds me of how the...
Wendy S. Hockenberry
When Absolem cries “Whoooo… are…. YOU?”
In some versions of Alice in Wonderland, the hooka smoking caterpillar on the mushroom is named Absolem. In Hebrew the meaning of the...
Wendy S. Hockenberry
Judgmental versus Value Judgement
I’m a Virgo, so I can be hella Judgmental. I mean I can be REALLY critical of people in general - especially when I’m not aligned (in...
Wendy S. Hockenberry
Conditioning – Waxing a Truth
I recently watched a short video where a woman was dipping a candle in assorted colors. When the wax had cooled to the perfect...
Wendy S. Hockenberry
You Don’t Mean Anything You Say Before “But”
In discussions with others, I try to play the devil’s advocate, using the words “but,” “however,” “yet,” finding it useful especially...
Wendy S. Hockenberry
Boundaries and Balance
Everyone should have boundaries. The things people shouldn’t cross because if they do, they are not respecting who you are, or your value...
Wendy S. Hockenberry
Expectations
Like a pregnant mother awaits a child, or a child awaits Santa, expectations depend upon another person to produce a feeling you lack and...
Wendy S. Hockenberry
Ego – A Vice or A Voice
If Karma is a bitch, what is Ego – a vice or a voice? Let us take a moment to define how Ego show’s its face. Any time you are angry,...
Wendy S. Hockenberry
Projection & Reflection in the Mirror
As a young child we had the best McDonald’s restaurants in the area I grew up. One had the playground and train you could sit in and eat,...
Wendy S. Hockenberry
Hi Gwen! Spiritual Journey to Unconditional Love
(The ONE AND ONLY ULTIMATE TRUTH) MISSION STATEMENT Gwendy The Digger Enterprises introduced the Hi Gwen - Spiritual Journey to...
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Shadow Self – the Nefarious and Elusive Snipe
Oh, that shadow, the nefarious and elusive snipe that I beat the bushes for in campgrounds to the hilarity of my parents. If you’ve ever...
Wendy S. Hockenberry
Recognizing the Mirror in Others
People are really our mirrors. The people you surround yourself are like minded to you. If you surround yourself with people who spend...
Wendy S. Hockenberry
Three Finger Rule in Finger Pointing
At the beginning, you go through something so terrible that you have either been left or have yourself left another person. Be it a...
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